Mastering the “Chameleon Effect” in Social Interactions
We naturally gravitate toward people who seem “like us.” From cheering for the same sports team to sharing similar tastes in music, similarity breeds liking. In conversation, one of the…
Mastering the Critique Sandwich: How to Provide Constructive Feedback
Giving feedback—whether at work, in community debates, or among friends—can feel like walking a tightrope. Lean too heavy on criticism, and you risk alienating your listener; heap on praise alone,…
Perception Versus Perspective
The terms “perception” and “perspective” are frequently used interchangeably. Andrew Bustamante, a former intelligence officer, shares his definitions of these concepts. Perception: The Personal Lens Perception is the individual interpretation…
3 Weeks to Boost Your Happiness: A Practical Guide
In his Managing Happiness course at Harvard, Arthur C. Brooks separates the drivers of happiness: 50% genetics, 25% life circumstances, and 25% habits—precisely the realm where hypnosis and mindset training…
Social Connection for Longevity
In her TED Talk, Susan Pinker considers Julianne Holt-Lunstad’s research on longevity. Julianne Holt-Lunstad emphasizes the benefits of social connections. Her research has shown social interactions make life more enjoyable…